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Thursday, July 10, 2014

10 Reasons You Should Not Date A Married Man

Have you ever thought or in the process of dating a married man? It should seem pretty obvious why you should get yourself involved with a married man, true? My sisters think of adultery, lying, cheating, home wrecker, guilt trip should be enough to warn a woman off. Why should you get yourself to this dirty game? In case he has you so mesmerized that you can’t think clearly, I am more than happy to do the thinking for you with the following reasons;
1. He is Married
I’m sure he tells you that he is not happy with his wife, this is only making him an unhappy married man not necessarily unattached, what he did not tell you is that you are just an item!

 2. You Are an Accomplice to Adultery

Sincerely you might be thinking you are not the one breaking the vows but to be honest with you, you are helping him to break them. Remember the vow he made, “ to forsake all others” he will never be faithful to you as well.
 3. He Won’t Leave Her for You
This is naivety of high level! I don’t care how many promises he made to you, never expect him to leave his wife and come and marry you, just be prepared for a heart break when he moves to another woman who is naive as you are.
 4. Prepare for Hide and Seek Affair
You really can’t lie to people you are having a relationship because sooner it is going to boil down to lies, he will have to hide from his friends in fear of been seen with you and report to his precious wife.
 5. He Doesn’t Know How to Handle Problems
You knowingly hooked up with a man who leave alone helping you with solving problems can’t solve problems in his family. Any time you have a problem will be a high time for him to seek peace somewhere else.
 6. He is the Only Winner
Oooh yes! You are a total looser in this game. He affords to spend all his days with you and the nights with his wife, if by chance he is tired of you, he can move on with no strings attached. It will be easier for him to think of another person if he could do that to someone whom he is legally bound, what you think he will do to you bound by verbally. You are only known to his friends as a “husband snatcher”.
7. Time is Too Precious to Waste
Women aren’t like men, very quickly you will start showing wrinkles and grey hair and your pretty look will disappear. All that time wasted playing in the name of a relationship you could have utilized it on someone who was serious to settle with you.
 8. You are Spending Special Days Alone
Everyone likes spending Christmas and valentine days with their loved ones. It is hurting in this days (feels like been thrown cold water in the face) after realizing he is not following you but instead he is taking his family out, to your surprise even he doesn’t pick your calls nor answer your texts.
9. It Damages Your Reputation as a Woman
Dating a married man you are frequently perceived to have low self-esteem or a woman of loose moral character. Seldom are mistresses believed to be trustworthy individuals and deserving of public respect.

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