In what is fast becoming a very séxual world, one might wonder if there still the need for abstinénce.
Here are 10 reasons to wait till marriage.
1. Séx is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like
atomic power, séx is the most powerful creative force given to man.
When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when
it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Séx is the same kind of
powerful force. Séx is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure,
to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for
procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful
force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to
you.
2. Séxual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies
show that when young people engage in premarital séx, their academic
performance declines and their social relationships with family and
friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to
deal with the explosive séx drive and it tends to dominate their life.
3. The majority of women cannot enjoy séx outside of the bonds of marriage. The
development of a fulfilling séx life needs the security and peace of
the marriage bond. Premarital séx usually takes place sneaking around in
hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of
pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine
pleasure in premarital séx, most especially for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the
person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your
virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse.
Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose
something so precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital séx run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant
today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other
common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and
many couples discover many years later that they became infertile
because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of
today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they
married.
7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other séxually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have séx and maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8. Premarital séx breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The
10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not
outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can
create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a
heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and
loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can
break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital séx runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous
scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer
psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than
children from intact families. Above all, children need both their
father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will
never have their father's love, protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have séx, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But
if you have séx with those you date and then break up, the nature of
séxual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your
whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate
relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of
these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are
married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant
memories will accompany you.
True
love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best
for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted
pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital séx. They
will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all
- the love nest of marriage.
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